Spank Your Lover, Not Your Kids

To be upfront about it, I'm a spanking fetishist. Ever since I can remember, the thought of being spanked has turned me on. My parents never spanked me or threatened to, so my spanking kink doesn't stem from my childhood punishments. Growing up as a kid I was put under the authority of pro-spanking adults on several occasions. However, I was a relatively well-behaved child and spankings were never carried out. The thought of them terrified me until I was around 8 years old, then they also made me curious as well as terrified. Then when I hit the blossoming age of 12 I was full-on curious and determined to one day join the adult spanking community I was well aware of as a result of many "spanking" yahoo searches.

Now I am in my early 20s, a veteran spankee to those lucky enough and my porn library is chalk full of punishment videos of many varieties. I am also active in many 'spanking' specific websites and forums. It's a beautiful thing, spanking. Taboo and scary and exciting all at the same time. Russian researchers have shown that playful spanking literally releases more endorphins than exercise, causing euphoria in our lovely minds and bottoms. There's also something completely satisfying about giving in to your inhibitions and handing the power of your body over to someone else. Sexy stuff!

Lately, however, I've stumbled upon shocking actual pro-corporal punishment forums created by parents and perverts that advocate the spanking of children. At the first moment of discovery my stomach dropped and I wanted to vomit. After years of searching and viewing S/M porn on the internet it was only very recently that I've been exposed to what I consider to be true filth online. Articles and posts by the hundreds condoning perverse acts of disciplining children, including graphic recollections of humiliating bare-assed whippings experienced by the writer or doled out by them.

You may have been spanked as a child by an authoritative figure, thinking it's no big deal, but I'll tell you right now why it's wrong. As I've stated earlier, I adulate spanking! It's my primary sexual past time. And its incredibly common amongst kinky society and thee most common fetishes in the BDSM world. Since the beginning of time, spanking has been a method of sexy foreplay. The fact that a popular sexual act is identical to a physical and violent method we use to punish (not to mention mortify) our children is something pro-spanking parents must rethink! And realize that it's sad and disgusting.

Spanking is wonderful for consensual adults and should be kept out of the formula for raising our offspring. Especially when there are many other ways to teach a kid right from wrong.

Now.. that's not to say I don't love a good role play session! I think this naughty young schoolgirl needs to be taken over the knee for a good thrashing! ;-)